I wouldn’t be canceling your 1:1s or ignoring your questions, but I would have had a very serious “whoa, we seem to be on very different pages about how to operate here” conversation with you, and part of that would have been serious reconsideration whether you were the right person to have on my team.
To answer your question about whether or not it’s a bad raise: It depends on factors I don’t know, like how what you’re earning compares to the market rate for the work in your area, how long you’ve been in the job (if it’s been less than a year, this could be perfectly reasonable), and how the company normally handles raises.
Russian intentions for its deployment still unclear Detail 1.It’s very hard to work with someone who operates that way, and few managers will choose to.If I were your boss, this conversation would have left me with grave concerns about your judgment and professionalism.Aim, endorsed by PUTIN, has been to encourage splits and divisions in western alliance — So far TRUMP has declined various sweetener real estate business deals offered him in Russia in order to further the Kremlin's cultivation of him.However he and his inner circle have accepted a regular flow of intelligence from the Kremlin, including on his Democratic and other political rivals — Former top Russian intelligence officer claims FSB has compromised TRUMP through his activities in Moscow sufficiently to be able to blackmail him.If you can’t stomach the thought of that, then I think that reaction is probably telling you that you and your boss are on such different pages that it may indeed be time to move on.CONFIDENTIAL/SENSITIVE SOURCE COMPANY INTELLIGENCE REPORT 2016/080 US PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION: REPUBLICAN CANDIDATE DONALD TRUMP'S ACTIVITIES IN RUSSIA AND COMPROMISING RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KREMLIN Summary — Russian regime has been cultivating, supporting and assisting at least 5 years.The Kremlin's cultivation operation on TRUMP also had comprised offering him various lucrative real estate development business deals in Russia, especially in relation to the ongoing 2018 World Cup soccer tournament.However, so far, for reasons unknown, TRUMP had not taken up any of these. However, there were other aspects to TRUMP's engagement with the Russian authorities.(And if you decide that it is, you find another position and then give notice.) I very much doubt that your boss tried to pull one over on you and is now angry that it didn’t work.I mean, I suppose that’s possible, but it’s far more likely that he’s just totally taken aback by your response and is trying to figure out how and whether to move forward, as any manager — good or bad — would be. You said that you’ve apologized several times to your boss. Ideally it needs to be something like, “I’m mortified by my reaction when you told me about my raise.