Is it Astelle he doesn’t want or he doesn’t want any woman? Emotionally unavailable men are caught up in themselves and trust me, even if it was Angelina Jolie, until he resolves his issues and decides to be available, he is not going to want to give himself.He likes the idea of being with you and likes you per se, but doesn’t actually like you enough to change. Emotionally unavailable men are very of the moment and enjoy the short term fringe benefits but don’t actually want to contribute.You are the one who has cemented your role, not him.Yes his behaviour is shoddy but you chased and chased, even in the face of..nothing…or very little.Whether it’s figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you.Introduction Ive always enjoyed writing, but i never expected to start writing about myself and my relationship. Most have peppered away naturally with little long term damage.Is he waiting for the woman to make contact with him? Most emotionally unavailable men that like being online will have a dating profile somewhere. This is about attention and what women commonly refer to as creating a Narcissistic Harem collecting female ‘friends’, ‘acquaintances’, and ‘dates’ that he can always turn to for attention and an ego boost. Somebody that doesn’t know yet how screwed up he is.
Wash your hands of him, delete his number, forget him, and move on.Emotionally unavailable men are all about the chase so it is not unusual to see a lot of them during the first few weeks or months.But at some point he either realised that it was all a bit too much for him, decided that he had too little time and too much pressures, or something about you sent a signal to him that you expected too much from him. OK, you want to keep being there for me and being nice to me?So first up, lets kick off with a bit of background information I’m Annie and I’ve not had very many relationships.Relationships have either lasted a while or I’ve been happily single and not on the dating scene – I suppose some would say i was a prime target for the emotionally unavailable man, but I’ve always had my head screwed on properly and, for many years, was the woman other female friends came to for advice.Until you cut the contact with them permanently, that is the only time when they truly realise that you’re not interested. I found his profile in 2006 on one of the free dating websites, why would he do that, is he jusrt looking for another woman to use?But then how does he “date” women if he doesn’t make contact? Don’t make the mistake of thinking that it is all about physically being with or seeing a woman.Some have been hard to say goodbye to, but a few weeks or months of grieving while you put your life back together, has helped to heal the pain.Every relationship that ends, signals the end of all your hopes in that person, the life you hoped to live with them, the feeling of being one half of a whole.Actions speak waaaaay louder than words and this mans actions show that he is emotionally unavailable, incapable of a relationship, and on planet HIM.You are emotionally unavailable too with issues about commitment and you need to deal with these if you really want to move forward. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.